From an aesthetic point of view they can capture how much a man is
(so they won’t have to babysit him and they can feel proud to walk beside him).
I don’t think that fashionable clothing choices and other amenities are really very important, on the contrary, a bit of extravagance carried with ease I think it’s a point in favour.
In an interactive perspective, I think that women are very observant
how he relates to others
The ideal should be an attitude
So no to banal machismo (which usually hides insecurity and/or future prevarication towards her), but also to submission (women already have many decisions to make: they are looking for a partner to support them, not a child to care for).
As for the
I think they’re looking out for an attitude of
balance between lightness and seriousness
depending on the subjects dealt with.
Rejected the heaviness
(not knowing how to joke).
I flunked the “I know everything”
As for the
women will notice how adept he is at grasping their signals, whether of “invitation”, of “fake rejection”, or of “real rejection”. Mistakes are usually forgiven in the first two cases (not understanding the invitation or the false rejection), even if they reveal
little empathy for him
but the insistence on a real rejection will rightly make them run for their lives.
There are a thousand other things that women look at, all in an absolutely discreet way, but it is enough to be less focused on themselves (but on them) to notice that the “scanner” is working!